Ask somebody who has been to Cape Cod what the water is like and the answer is close to useless unless you know which side of it they were standing on. This is a 65-mile arm of glacial sand with three separate coasts, and they are not variations on a theme. They are three different swims. On the same August afternoon the water temperature can differ by fifteen degrees between them, the tidal range differs by a factor of three, and the surf runs from a genuine shore break to essentially nothing.
The Atlantic side is the outer shore, and about forty miles of it lie inside Cape Cod National Seashore, running from Chatham up through Orleans, Eastham, Wellfleet, Truro and Provincetown. This is open ocean with nothing between you and Portugal. The beach shelves away steeply, waves break on offshore bars and then again at your feet, and the water is cold. Even in the first week of August the outer beaches often sit in the low sixties, and a stiff west wind can drop that into the fifties overnight by pushing the warm surface layer offshore. It is the most dramatic coast here and the least forgiving.
The bay side faces north and west into Cape Cod Bay, from Sandwich along Route 6A through Barnstable, Dennis and Brewster and on to Eastham and Wellfleet. The tidal range at the canal end runs to roughly nine or ten feet, which is very large for this stretch of the Atlantic, and at dead low the flats off Brewster go out something like a mile and a half. You walk on them. The returning tide then floods in across sand that has been in the sun for six hours, which is why shallow bay water in late July is warmer than anything the ocean offers. This is the coast for small children, and the only one that faces the sunset.
The Sound side runs along the south shore from Falmouth through Mashpee, Barnstable, Yarmouth and Dennis to Harwich and Chatham, sheltered by Martha's Vineyard and Nantucket sitting offshore like breakwaters. Nantucket Sound is the mild middle option: small waves, a modest tidal range, water that reaches the low seventies in August and stays swimmable well into September. Most of the Cape's rental cottages sit within ten minutes of it, and most first-time visitors end up here without ever making the decision.
Two practical things catch people out before they get wet. Parking runs on two incompatible systems: every town administers its own beach stickers and its own daily rates, so a Falmouth sticker buys you nothing in Dennis, while the National Seashore beaches sit outside all of that and charge a federal fee at the gate. And Nauset Beach and Nauset Light Beach are different beaches, in different towns, under different management. People book a cottage next to the wrong one every summer.
One more thing nobody should learn on arrival. White sharks are now a normal part of an Outer Cape summer. They followed the grey seals inshore, the seals recovered because the state bounties stopped and the Marine Mammal Protection Act passed in 1972, and the purple flag flying at the ocean beaches is a standing advisory rather than a same-day alarm. The guidance is specific, it is further down this page, and knowing it changes where you swim rather than whether you come.